fix: align jaeger tracing flag names

[ivanov17andrey]

Closes #27406

Align the canonical Jaeger debug-name and tags flags with the rest of the
--traces-exporter-jaeger-* family (and with their env var names), while
keeping the previous shorter names as backwards-compatible aliases.

Changes

• Rename --traces-jaeger-debug-name → --traces-exporter-jaeger-debug-name
  (alias kept) in core/trace_exporters/src/lib.rs.
• Rename --traces-jaeger-tags → --traces-exporter-jaeger-tags
  (alias kept) in core/trace_exporters/src/lib.rs.
• Update the packaged influxdb3-core.conf, the serve_all.txt help text,
  and the launcher TOML→env mapping in influxdb3-launcher so the new
  canonical names are first-class while legacy spellings still resolve.
• Update the non-sensitive parameter categorization in
  influxdb3/src/commands/serve/cli_params.rs.
• Add unit tests covering both the new flag→env mapping and the deprecated
  flag aliases continuing to parse.

Tests

• cargo nextest run --workspace

• cargo clippy --all-targets --workspace -- -D warnings

• cargo fmt --all

• python3 -m py_compile .circleci/packages/influxdb3/fs/usr/lib/influxdb3/influxdb3-launcher

• git diff --check

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